"Why is that guy not talking to anyone? what's wrong with him". This is the question I hear from many people. Some people asked it directly seeing my eyes and some are discussing among their friends.
I need to answer that question. Early from my childhood, I am growing with such a character. During my school and college, I had only limited friends, one or two or maximum three. I tried talking to many people and get some new friends. But unfortunately I got failed in those attempts and I felt uncomfortable and embarassing whenever I tried to change this stupid character. I tried myself many times to come out of this. But the consecutive failures and pains stopped me in trying further.
With this character, I finished schooling and college. After nine months job hunt, I got placed in a software company in chennai. I entered the company with this character. People who can't talk with many people cannot succeed in software life. It's the universal fact that everyone knows. Anyhow I managed to complete 2.3 years in the same company. Still I am in the process of changing my character in to a social person who talks with everyone. Many colleagues in my company often see me in tensed face trying to avoid talking with them. Sorry if anyone has misaken me. If I am in such a tensed situation, I am not able to talk with people. I know you are asking me a question now, "What is making you to get such a high tension in office". Actually I don't know the answer. Because I use to get tensed without any reason. You are not able to understand anything!!! That's my character
I hope everyone has read the answer for your question. You are most welcome if you want to give me some idea to come out of my problem.
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Lets meet for a "Treat" (social gathering) and discuss on this. lol
Its great that you don't feel the effects of loneliness, emptiness, idleness... keep rocking...
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